Rules & Expectations

These rules always apply to all guests and members. By attending our events, you agree to adhere to these guidelines to ensure a safe, respectful, and fun environment for everyone.

  • Consent is King: It is sexy, and it is mandatory. Make sure you have explicit, verbal consent before engaging with anyone. Consent can be rescinded at any time, so always check in and make sure you still have it.
  • Respect Boundaries: Respect everyone’s boundaries at all times.
  • Zero Drama & Good Vibes: This is a light-hearted, drama-free environment. Leave the drama at home. No disrespecting guests, and strictly no discussions about religion, politics, or other triggering topics. This is a party, not a potential brawl zone.

🔒 Privacy & Security

  • Protect the Location: Strictly NO sharing of the event address. Never give out the address to anyone (always check with the host).
  • No Photos or Videos: No pictures or videos are permitted in general areas. Private photos taken strictly amongst consenting parties are allowed.

🛑 Zero Tolerance & Safety

  • No Drugs: No drugs of any kind are allowed. Violation will result in instant removal and permanent blacklisting.
  • No Weapons: No weapons of any kind are permitted on the premises.
  • Prohibited Play: Strictly NO Breath Play, Asphyxiophilia, or Blood Play.

🥂 Drinks & Substances

  • BYOB & Responsible Drinking: Alcohol is BYOB. Mixers will be available for use. Please drink responsibly.
  • Intoxication: Anyone heavily intoxicated will be asked to leave.

Venue & Play Area Guidelines

  • Newcomers: There will be a venue tour upon arrival for all newcomers so you know where everything is.
  • Play in Designated Areas: All play must remain in designated play spaces.
  • The Playrooms: Respect the area you are in and do not disturb others at play unless you are explicitly invited to join.
  • Doors & Privacy: Doors can be closed for private play for limited time increments, but there is absolutely no locking doors.
  • The Dungeon Room: Please be respectful of those scening and treat all available equipment with care.
  • Bathrooms: Strictly no sex in the bathrooms.
  • Sex Positive Party: Condoms and lube are provided in limited quantities, however, everyone is responsible for bringing their own protection.